I am very sad to report that I have not driven yet. Haven’t even really been in a car in the last week at all. I know what a bad procrastinator I can be, and I can feel myself already avoiding this task because I know I have a long time to reach my goal. Everyone always tells me how fun and liberating driving is, and how they couldn’t WAIT to get their licenses – and that I must be crazy for not being more eager to learn to drive. I honestly don’t know that it is, I just don’t care!
I’ve been very fortunate to live in cities where it’s easy to get around by foot or with transit, so having to drive was never really a requirement. I also didnt have anyone available or willing to teach me how to drive when I was younger, so figuring out how to get around and get to work and school on my own gave me a sense of independence. I understand how beneficial it will be for me as a teacher – especially subbing, it would be virtually impossible to get a call out to a school the morning of and make it there on time by relying on public transport. So, I know I have to do it, and I will! I am just lacking the motivation still. I’m sure as soon as I get my full license I’ll think “I was crazy for not doing this sooner” there are a lot of opportunities i’ve missed out on from not being able to drive… so I’m excited to see if/how my life changes after I learn.
https://adaa.org/learn-from-us/from-the-experts/blog-posts/consumer/overcome-fear-driving
This is an article I read about having a fear of driving, which I totally relate to. I’ve definitely had my experiences with anxiety in general and see those fears manifesting in a way that is impeding me from learning this new skill. Personally, I feel like I will be a safe and cautious diver, but a lot of my fear stems from other drivers and my lack of control over their safe driving practices. I’m by no means perfect – but I feel like if I stay off the road, i can control those interactions and avoid unsafe situations others may put me in.
I also wanted to thank everyone who shared their stories about learning to drive and their successes and failures! I also really appreciate the tips on good spots to go and practice. i’ll add them to my running list and check them out, promise!!!! I am GETTING IN A CAR THIS WEEKEND >:))))))))
juliamarina
Nikki! It’s so valid to be anxious about driving, and everything you said about not being able to control other people’s safe driving makes sense. I’m honestly such a stickler for terrible driving (I can’t stand when people don’t signal before switching lanes for example – or when they don’t know proper traffic circle etiquette!!). I’m confident you’ll get out there when you feel ready and it’s so great to have the motivation of be a TOC to get there. I am so happy to have my N, but I don’t know if I’ll take my full license test ASAP because I get the same level of independence without it – but who knows! I’m cheering you on though!